"Freeing Minds from Jealousy"
Roland Stimpson — Ericksonian Hypnotherapist & Non-Attachment Therapist
Why I Do This
I've lived this. I know the way out.
I suffered with retroactive jealousy for decades. It coloured my entire youth and destroyed relationship after relationship. Every time the obsessive thoughts would grip me, I would panic and move on to someone new — not because I stopped caring, but because I couldn't endure the pain of my own mind.
I went to psychotherapy. I read everything. I tried everything. Nothing worked because these all explore the content of thinking and not the process. I couldn't consciously think my way out of this problem and in fact it just made things worse. You don't get out of a hole by continuing to dig harder.
Then I found non-attachment therapy. One session. That's all it took. For the first time in my life, I had power over my thoughts instead of my thoughts having power over me. The intrusive loops didn't disappear — my relationship to them fundamentally changed. I was free.
I trained under Stephen Brooks, the very therapist who cured me. I completed his training in non-attachment therapy, and then trained further as an Ericksonian hypnotherapist under his guidance. I now dedicate this work entirely to helping others escape the same prison I spent decades in.
I do not want anyone else to lose what I lost — relationships, years, peace of mind — to a pattern that is entirely solvable.
